Boggled

Laugh, and the whole world seems insane.

Kev Needham | 2004-11-02

A couple months ago, I had an epiphany. I had been pulling my hair... err... stubble out from the insanity surrounding me. I was headed for an ulcer, because I was increasingly frustrated by the buck-passing, finger-pointing, responsbility-shirking, and ass-kissing that was making my life more challenging than it should be. I’ve mentioned some of my experiences along the way, and thought that I had reached the breaking point. As it turned out, I hadn’t. I just needed to figure out that I should stare in wonder for a bit and then go about my business instead of just getting mad.

It’s a lot more fun to giggle at how ludicrous things are than to elevate my blood pressure by raging against the machine while bitching to friends. Don’t get me wrong, I still bitch, it’s just that now it’s more like an expression of wonder than a complaint. It’s no longer “woe is me, this ain’t right” but is more along the lines of “Woah, that’s fucked up... how are we in business again?”

From all this, I’ve come across some practices for folks who may want to fit into an insane environment. I wouldn’t think of trying them out, but maybe you or someone you know won’t have the same qualms. Apparently they work, or I’d probably have a whole bunch of new colleagues to play with. If you can laugh at them as you see them, the desire to jump out the window will disappear completely. No, really. Here’s some of the more popular choices:

That’s what I’ve learned the last little while. Now I do what I do, watch everyone else, giggle to myself at the insanity of it all, and toss knuckleballs at the people trying to get away with making things my problem. There’ll be no making lemonade, I’m hucking those things back at them at high velocity.

The sad part is that I continue to see examples of the above multiple times. The funny part is it continues to work. It will catch up with the folks practicing these methods in the end, the only question will be whether the environment wakes up and bitchslaps them out of existence, or that it continues to slumber and sink into the depths.

We’ll see how it works out. In the interim, I’ll do what I think needs to be done, and hatch a nefarious plan to invade Calgary and points West in the near future. I’ll also continue to laugh, because it’s not my whole world. Boy did it take a long time to learn that.

(i be) kev.

Tuesday, November 2, 2004
PD DCLXXVI

P.S. If you were expecting something on the circus down South, I apologise for disappointing. I figure they’re all big boys and girls down there and hope that they know what they’re doing. If you’re looking for entertainment, just tune to CNN and watch them spin everything out of nothing.

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